IN THE LIFE OF MUNI LE'BLANC...

If there’s one thing I’ve learned about females in my 25 years on this planet it’s that they can be the most jealous creatures on earth. Let me give you the perfect example. Have you ever seen a group of like 4 or 5 females crowded around a television watching a red carpet show that precedes a major award show?




Inevitably there will be comments like “ugh, she looks horrible” or “I can’t believe she wore that.” This, gentlemen is the essence of jealousy. Why? Because 99% of the time this group will be referring to an actress that is smokin’ hot. Um, yeah. Ladies, you’ll never look like her so rather than admit to jealousy you have to badmouth these women?



I’m not saying all females are like that but I guarantee you that at some point in their lives a woman will be annoyingly jealous of another, no matter how hot they are.


Especially among friends..If one of your friends have got a caring and loving boyfriend, then you will see ladies looking for an excuse to tell their friend, 5 reason she most dump him because he doesn't deserve her..Especially among the blacks, when we see our fellow women are climbing up to success, archieving remarkable goals, we start by back biting, saying all sort of negative things about the person..Not knowing God time is the best, according to a friend of mine Miss Ebun Olujobi.
Has it occurred to you guys that the more you try to bring them down, the more they climb higher and succeed in every area of their lifes??? While you are still at the same spot...(*giggles*) I have got a song I love so much from "Timaya-Carry Cutlass".

Some friends(Hmmm.. I'd say FRENEMIES ) we keep are envious but we wont realise it on time before is too late.. You most have noticed you have got a friend who has this nasty way of bringing up really embarrassing/unflattering/inappropriate stories in front of your boyfriend/husband and keeps going on about them, even if you try to change the subject."

Some just cant stand the fact that every being is created differently and everyone has his or her destiny predicted, they go out their way to do every thing to be like you.. “What is so fascinating is how little regard women have for what rightfully belongs to another woman, be it her job, her husband

It’s been an unprecedented and unexpected part of how women treat one another.Instead of envying what another woman has, look at what you have.

We have to understand that we are not twins with our friends, and not everything our co-workers and good friends achieve is what will work for us as well.”

Women face a lot of obstacles in the world, from societal expectations to raising families to making a mark in the world to discovering what makes them happy and satisfied. Instead of looking at fellow females as competition, women need to bond together in the spirit of that fairy-tale sisterhood, accordingly.

The first step is recognizing who you are and what your goals are. Recognize the rivalry within you. Set it aside. And move beyond.


"In general, I just have women in my life that I love and love to hang out with. I'm not friends with chicks who annoy me or make me feel bad about myself. I have always believed that "True friends bring out the best in each other", and I try to follow that. When my friends are happy, I am happy for them and if otherwise, I'd be a shoulder to lean on when in need.

Life is too short to be busy-bodying or bad mouthing people about. You can utilize those times to create tangible and resourceful thing in your life that will be meaningful.

Lets get rid of JEALOUSY and move beyond..

Le'Blanc

**Keep no squares in your circle! (You can't hang with the same folks day in and day out & expect to advance)...Get Rid Of The Squares in your Circle & You Will Advance!!!!!Xx

Hi Everyone
As you can all recall, I was the bad chick in Kokomansion.*wink*

But to recall back my Koko mansion memoir.. It occurred to me that, not everyone know the otherside of me and that I was only playing acting as I was instructed..and after Kokomansion. Speculations are still going around about how I got into the house at the last moment..

Let me share with you. How, when and where my Journey to Kokomansion started and life after the house...

I was working as a Ticketing Consultant shortly after completion of my Tourism Course... I was at work that faithful day when my friend Jenny called me and asked me "Isi do you know about kokomansion? Just as I picked up her call. 'And I queried "What is that?" She said is a hot reality show that is buzzing in Lagos now. And they needed a girl to go into the house as soon as possible. And that she could not think of another person to pull off that role than me..**laughs**
I was like okay.. Before I could blink, everything went so fast..I got a call from Ibstv representatives in London requesting a meeting with me.I also spoke with the producer in Nigeria.In a nutshell, I was already airbound to LAGOS..

I arrived in Lagos on a friday night and was to go into the house on a sunday.. A press interview was schedule for Saturday afternoon..Hmm..
As soon as it hit d news that a new kokolet is coming into the house my whole life turned around..lol...I was asked to deactivate my facebook account..I was not allowed to make any more contact with the outside world from that moment on...

Then the d-day arrived, I entered the house and met the other girls. After make making myself comfortable. I took charge of the room. A shortwhile later, I met the host of the show for the first time..The KOKOMASTER himself DBANJ..And I was introduced to him as the new kokolet.
In the evening, it was time for me to go in, then all my nerves broked loose..*lol*..
When I got into the house, the six beautiful girls with different personality and backgrounds were shocked with my presence. And at first I was afraid but I quickly shrugged it off. As I was already anticipating the worst anyway and was ready to bring anyone down who stepped on my toe..(*laughs* meanwhile I'm a softie o)..
I could see in the girls reaction that they were really shocked to say the least. As they never expected to see a new rival in the house at the very last minute...

Chidinma welcomed me well, she helped me settled in, while the other girls were still laid back from the shock of seeing a new kokolet..
Permit me to digress. The week continued in which you all know how the first two days was for me..It was hard, I had confrontation with my fellow mates...Goosh and I almost lost it..This were the girls that did not offend me but my roleplay was to react hard and push them hard for them to bring out their true character's..I had to be strong and not allow them see my weakness too, they had to believe that
I was in the house to fight for the 5million naira cashprize and the brand new car too..

When I lost my courage in the house was my fight with Rita..Goosh it was so hard for me..I cried in secret after the fight..And when I saw her crying.. I secretely yearn to hug her and apologise and confessed to her that I'm just acting but I could not. I felt really bad after our fight..

I had to play my part in different character in front of the girls and to the world.. Despite the fact I do not like cooking and washing dishes, but note I can cook and clean. I'm not a spoilt brat..
So to cut the story short. Shona a.k.a small devil threw me off my feet when she put a frog on my head. I'm scared of creepy stuffs..**crying*.. It took me a litle while to forgive her but today she is one of my sweetheart's.
I heard alot of negativity from people while in the house and after the house which I turned my back against totally..I received mails for days from people trying to say all sorts of things about me, but it actually made me stronger. I'm the kind of girl who totally care less about what people think, I did not allow it break me down rather I turned it into making it a new way of selling my image...

I was brought into the house to make the girls show their true character, my role was to push them to the edge, because is not how a woman handle herself in a good situation that makes her an ideal woman, is how she reacts in a bad situation and when pushed to the wall..In my opinion my six girls (Shona,Chimwe,Lizzy,Rita,Chidinma,Bola) are my ideal women.